On a bright Saturday with a slight chill in the air, the DVFriends community came together to honor and remember the legacy of founding Head of School, Irene McHenry. Irene passed in May of this year, leaving behind a thriving school and Quaker community.
At the event, members of the DV community shared their fond memories of Irene, of the founding of the school, and of the deep ways Irene touched each of them. A common theme was her unique ability to give those around her her undivided attention and to make sure everyone she came into contact with felt valued and heard.
When Irene McHenry (1946–2026) became the first Head of School at Delaware Valley Friends in 1986, she believed students with learning differences deserved to be understood and celebrated. She cultivated a community grounded in respect and self-advocacy.
At Friends Council on Education, she mentored generations of Quaker school leaders and founded the Leadership Institute in Friends Schools. A gifted writer and speaker, she encouraged educators to lead with reflection, courage, and purpose, especially in uncertain times.
Irene was calm in a storm, quietly determined once she set her mind to something, and endlessly curious about education, psychology, nature, spirituality, and the ways people grow. She listened deeply, asked thoughtful questions, and helped others recognize strengths in themselves.
If you would like to honor Irene’s legacy and support continued opportunities for DV students, you can complete our online form or inquire about leadership gift opportunities with Rachel Loeper, Director of Philanthropy.
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